Showing posts with label Your Toughest Questions Answered. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Your Toughest Questions Answered. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Big Day: Answers!


HOW many of you believe that you're a winner?

A lot of things can go against you; The enemy can be againstyou; Circumstances can go against you; Events can go against you; 
Problems can go against you; People can go against you; But if God is for you, who can be against you? There is no force in the universethat can stop your destiny.

Today we answer your questions. 

How will you know if it is God talking to you or it is just your inner self stating what you want to believe in? 

First, don’t rush making decisions. Our problem is that we are always in a hurry. Take your time. Sleep on it. Take a break. Go for a short vacation. The reason you’re so confused is because you’re so immersed in the muck of life. Walk away from the situation, climb a mountain, and get a mountain view perspective. Spend time discerning and praying. Seek confirmation with other wise mentors. Just by doing that, you’ll be able to make better decisions.

Second, know the difference between the role of your conscience and the role of youremotions. You get into heaps of problems if you mix them up. The role of your emotions is toreveal what is real, not what is right. That’s the role of your conscience. Your emotions arethe windows of your soul: They tell you how you’re doing, not what you should be doing.

Third, God honors your sincere desire to know His will. And even if you make a mistake inknowing God’s will, God will find a way to right the wrong. All things will work for good tothose who love God. In God, you can’t lose. You’re always a winner.

Is giving to beggars a good thing? Wouldn't this keep them begging? But nakokonsiensya ako if I don’t give. Is this the voice of God? 

God wants us to love the poor. The question is how. You need to find the best way to love them.

When you give to kids who beg on the streets, you’re encouraging them to stay onthe streets. But the streets are a very dangerous place for kids. That’s where they meet accidents, gangs, and drugs.

The best way to help the street kids is not to give fish but to teach them how tofish.Instead of giving to the beggars directly, give to ministries that help the poor on along-term sustainable program, like the He Cares Foundation for Street Children.

I want to be an usher at the Feast. How can I apply? 

Are you sure you want to be an usher at the Feast? Do you have a permanent smile on your face, especially at the 10:45 a.m. session, where they have to close the doors because PICC management requires that we close them, lest we go against the fire ordinance of the City. Some people will shout at you for being so bad! (I honor our ushers for being the most patient people. I love you!)

To volunteer, simply go to the Connect Group Table at the Lobby. To volunteer in any of our ministries, we encourage you to join a Connect Group.

How can I establish a Campus Feast in our school? 

That’s fantastic. Anyone listening right now who is being called by God to start a Campus Feast, please get in touch with JC Libiran (below) at jclibiran21@gmail.com

We started a Feast in SM Manila some four years ago. Some of those students had graduated and are now serving in the various Feasts. In a few years, they’ll get married and have kids. I started very young—I was 13 years old when I began preaching. Most of our leaders started very young in the Lord. And I believe that a huge number of our future leaders— 3 or 5 or 10 years from now will be coming from our Campus Feasts.

I love giving. But sometimes, I feel my actions are not true. I was just compelled to give, and every time I feel this way, I become sad. What should I do to be pure in giving? 

At least you know that you’ve got impure motives. That’s wonderful. Knowing what tochange is half the battle won. But at the end of the day, do what is right. And then ask God to purify your motives.

Breathing consists of two parts— inhaling and exhaling. You just can’t inhale and notexhale—or you’ll die. In the same way, wealth is like breathing. It also consists of two parts getting and giving. If you don’t give, something in you dies. So you can’t say, “I have impuremotives, so I might as well not give.” You still need to give, but keep praying to God to cleanse your motives.

I just want to know what is the difference between Catholic and Christian? I’m kind of confused. And is the Feast Catholic or Christian? 

We’re Buddhists. Just kidding. Catholics are Christians. But I understand your question. I think you’re asking, “Is the Feast Catholic or Protestant?” We are Catholics. We love our Catholic Faith. In fact, we give our volunteers a Bible Study to deepen their Catholic Faith. (We’ll invite you to join that soon.) But since we’re reaching out to the unchurched, we welcome everyone—Catholics, Protestants, Buddhists, Atheists, Agnostics, Rizalistas,Noranians, Vilmanians…

Why do so many children die of hunger in Africa? Puwede naman gawan ng paraan ni Lord di ba? 

Unless God steps back and moves out of the way, we won’t learn that to minister to the poor is our role. In Matthew 25, Jesus calls us to feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, welcome the strangers, clothe the naked, and visit those in prison. Instead of asking, “God, why aren't you doing anything about this?” let’s ask our self, “Why am I not doing anything about this? Lord, teach me…”

This is our world. This is our people. At the early part of Genesis, Cain killed Abel. When God said, “Cain, where is your brother Abel?”
He asked, “Am I my brother’s keeper?”
That question is found in Genesis, the first book of the Bible. And the entire Bible is
answering that question with a resounding,
“Yes, you are your brother’s keeper!”

Is giving tithes different from charity? If I donate to charity, may I skip tithing?

I can only share with you my personal practice. I don’t want to impose this on you.
Pray to God for direction. I follow the practice in the Bible where there’s a difference between Tithes and Alms. Tithes go to the Temple and Alms go to the poor. Tithes go to the church and ministry that gives you spiritual nourishment so that your spiritual family can continue to support you.

Why do some people who want to have children cannot have children  while others who don’t want to have children, such as poor people or even rapevictims, have them? 

Answer: I don’t know. (Next question!)

I wish I knew the answer. Because I pray for a lot of my friends who are childless. But at the end of the day, I still trust that every pain has a purpose, every loss has a logic, every regret has a reason.

In Heaven, we will all say, “Oh, so that’s why that happened…”

I don’t know why my wife lost three babies through miscarriage. Every time, the pain was horrendous. After each miscarriage, my wife would go through depression for six months.

On the third miscarriage, I asked my wife, “So, is the pain lesser now that it’s your third?

My wife screamed at me. (Husbands sometimes say the most awful things.)
It’s a mystery that will only be answered in Heaven. And in Heaven, I will say, “Oh, so that’s why that had to happen…”

And I’ll be thanking God for how all things work for good.

All of us thank God for the blessing of open doors. But we should also equally thank God for the blessing of closed doors.

We are equally blessed when He gives things to us and when He takes things away from us. We are equally blessed when He says yes and when He says no.

When we started the Light of Jesus 33 years ago, we’d always wanted to have our permanent place for our prayer meetings. But every attempt we made failed. Today, 33years later, I thank God that we failed. Because we would have been stuck in that smallplace—when God wanted us to grow.

In the last three years alone in PICC, we grew from 3,500 to 10,000 attendees.

When we were praying for our place, God probably was laughing at us and saying,
“That place? You want that itsy bitsy teeny weeny polka dot bikini place? Ha-ha!”

When God says no, it means He wants something bigger, and better, and brighter for us.

Are statues and icons of Jesus, Mary, and Saints considered idolatry like other religions claim? 

The command against idolatry in the Bible was against the idols found 3000+ years ago. For example? Moloch, a god made of bronze, that was like a giant oven. They’d put blazing fire inside his belly, and when the entire statue was smoldering red hot, they’d throwa baby on his outstretched arm. Obviously, God was against idols like Moloch, not images of Jesus or Mary or Angels. In fact, even in the Bible, God asked Moses to create two images of angels at the Ark of the Covenant.

I have a photo of my wife and my boys in my wallet. That doesn't mean I idolize the photos. That means I love the persons in those photos. I have statues of Jesus and Mary on my altar at home not because I idolize those statues but because I love the person symbolized by those statues.

I denied my religion once and my conscience still bothers me. God knows Iam sorry for what I did. Does it mean that I’m a bad Christian?

You’re not a bad Christian. You’re a forgiven Christian. And everyone is. God has embraced your past the same way He embraced Peter’s denial. I need to warn you: Peter denied Jesus three times, and the Lord made Peter the first Pope. So you better watch outwhat great thing He’ll do in your life.

Why do other churches say that Saturday should be the day we go to Church? They quote the Bible as proof. They even say that we will not be saved because we’re doing business on the Sabbath.

Yes, the Bible tells us to worship on Saturday—as all the Jews did. But the early Christians transferred our worship day from Saturday to Sunday because Jesus rose from the dead on a Sunday. And the resurrection is our most important Feast. But Jesus also said thatthe Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. Catholics in the Middle East go to“Sunday” Mass on a Friday—because that’s when they’re off from work. I believe it’s not the day but the heart that matters to God.

Remember this spiritual principle: It’s the spirit of the law, not the letter of the law, that is important to God. When you emphasize the letter of the law over the spirit of the law, you call that legalism—and that’s idolatry. Because you’re making the law your god.

Fr. Mario Sobrejuanite told us a story of a woman who came to him for confession.

She said, “Father, I committed a mortal sin. Last Sunday, I wasn’t able to go to Mass.
My mother was sick, and there was no one in the house to take care of her. So I couldn’t goto Mass.”

Fr. Mario said, “You did not commit a sin.” The woman was shocked and said, “But Father, the Catechism says that if we don’t go to Mass on a Sunday, it’s a mortal sin.”

Fr. Mario said, “If you went to Mass last Sunday, you would have sinned against God because you left your sick mother at home all alone.”

Monday, September 23, 2013

Unstoppable

An old monk and a small boy were walking by a river.  Suddenly, they saw a scorpion in the water, holding onto a leaf, struggling for its life.  The old monk bent over and reached for the scorpion.  But every time his hand tried to save it, the scorpion stung him.  Still, the old man kept trying, yet every time he tried holding onto the scorpion, it bit him.  His hand was now swollen but he still kept trying to save the scorpion.

The little boy said, “Sir, why are you still trying to save it?  It’s biting you!”

The old monk replied, “It’s in the nature of the scorpion to bite.  But it’s in my nature to save.”

Friend, that monk is like God.  It’s His nature to save, to love, to bless.  And we’re that scorpion that bites the hand of God.  He’s saving us from our sin yet we reject it by continuing to sin.

But God keeps on saving us anyway.

He’s love for you in unstoppable.

A day will come when we will “graduate” from being a scorpion.  By His Grace, we’ll be transformed.  And we will no longer sting Him or others.

How do I know this will happen?

Because God’s Love is unstoppable.

Receive love from Him today!

May your dreams come true,


Bo Sanchez

How Can I Be Saved?
Outrageous Grace

Luke 9:23-24
If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.  For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it.

Luke 19:2-10
Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through.  A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy.  He wanted to see who Jesus was, but being a short man he could not, because of the crowd.  So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way.  When Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, "Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today."  So he came down at once and welcomed him gladly.  All the people saw this and began to mutter, "He has gone to be the guest of a 'sinner.'"  But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, "Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount."  Jesus said to him, "Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too, is a son of Abraham.  For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost."

1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Waves

A FEW months ago, I had the privilege to see the famous Twelve Apostles in Campbelle Park, Australia.

It’s a set of beautiful rock formations carved from the gorge along the coastline of Victoria. Over thousands of years, the waves crashed on the mountain’s side and eventually carved out these individually standing mini-mountains that people from all over the world have travelled thousands of miles to see.

It’s a breathtaking sight, indeed.

That’s what trials do to us.

Like waves, they crash on us painfully.

But over time they form us into beautiful works of art. Think about it — haven’t your sufferings formed you into who you are?

Aren’t you wiser, stronger, more experienced, and bolder?

You may not see it yet, but one day, people will stand in awe of your life when they witness the wonders God has done through your painful experiences.

So hold fast and don’t give up.

Your suffering is carving out a masterpiece in you.

In Him,
GEORGE GABRIEL

When God Sleeps

GARY VALENCIANO has his own moving version of the title. In his classic song, Natutulog Ba ang Diyos? he asks if God is sleeping when sufferings and trials happen to us. After all, Jesus did sleep in the boat in the middle of a raging storm that made even the bravest and most faithful apostles panic.

As a Philosophy student, I centered my thesis on the age old question, “Why does God allow evil to happen?” Evil, in philosophy, includes natural calamities such as typhoons and earthquakes-- and yes, manmade disasters too, that cause problems and pain. That means even early on in my life, I was already trying to make sense out of human suffering.

“Why am I suffering?”

This question for our Talk 2 today is probably the most asked by any human being on the planet. Many will skip directly asking, “What is God’s will for me?” or won’t even bother with the question, “How can I be saved?” But to ask about one’s misery and hurts-- ah, it can even be an acquired habit or a
favorite pastime.

To many people, when they think about God, it’s only to question Him why bad things are happening to them.Yet, suffering is indeed a reality everyone has to face, and yes, ask why.

Today, we are not exempt from this. Because we too will ask: “Why am I suffering?” “Is God sleeping?” But here’s the advance big secret to this talk.

When God seemingly sleeps in your life, and you think you’re alone facing the gigantic waves about to drown you, that’s when God wakes up and commands the storm to stop.

And you sail on to fulfill your dreams with peace in your heart, knowing that God has always been with you in the boat.

Mayroong Magandang Mangyayari Sa ‘Yo!

Your Friend in Jesus,
ALVIN BARCELONA

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Is This It?

I just returned from Feast Davao and I preached the word of God to over 600 people who attended the gathering. I believe in my heart that I gave my best, but there is a part of me that tells me the opposite. Something in me assumes that because of the language barrier, the audience did not get the message and in turn, I felt like I gave a lousy talk.

In Makati Feast, I also go through tough times. There are weeks that I don’t feel like preaching because of my sins and shortcomings. These are the few moments wherein I ask God, “Is this what You want me to do?” I mean, I was really okay in my previous work – fixing network problems, computer hardware malfunctions, supporting clients, and testing software products.

But, God always has his ways of reminding of what truly matters. After the Feast Davao, my friends andI went out for dinner. They told me that they were touched and a lot of people were able to relate to my talk and went home blessed.

The moment I heard those words, I prayed in my heart that from this day on I will not make preaching about me. Preaching is not about me. Preaching is about loving God and loving the people around me.

Friends, I believe that God’s will is about how you can best love God and love the people around you by using the gift that He gave you. Let us together pray and ask God for the direction He wants us to have in our lives.

Jimly (Jesus in me loves you),
Jan Silan

Sunday, September 8, 2013

Right Questions, Right Answers

I’M a teacher. I’m a teacher of teachers. And one of the most important things I teach teachers is not how to answer questions all the time but how to ask them more often. It’s the students’ job to look for answers themselves. But teachers can and should help students a lot by asking the right questions. Because if you ask the right questions you lead people to the right answers -- or the answers that really matter.

Recently, I went through a series of seminars on Meta-Coaching and Neuro Linguistic Programming – big, technical, fancy terms. In the end, I realized the principles and goals were basically the same.

Ask the right questions. That way, the coach leads and empowers the student to find the answers himself.
That’s why I’m deeply excited with our new series -- simply but powerfully titled, Questions.

For the next four Sundays we’ll ask your toughest questions. The talks will try to answer them too, using God’s Word. In the end, it will be you confirming the answers for yourself in reflection and in prayer. In our talks I believe we chose the questions that really matter: What Is God’sWill for Me? (Talk 1). Why Am I Suffering? (Talk 2). How Can I BeSaved? (Talk 3).

Throughout the series we’ll also encourage you to ask questions and submit them to us. On our Big Day we will try to answer them. Today, we’ll ask a basic and important question everyone should ask himself. “What Is God’s Will for Me?” More practically put, “What on earth am I am here for?”

Rick Warren asked that question in his book, Purpose Driven Life. It made him and his book a worldwide hit -- because it hit the very core inquiry of every human being. I proclaim that this series will bring so much enlightenment, empowerment, and encouragement to your life.

Get ready to be blessed!

Mayroong Magandang Mangyayari Sa ‘Yo!

Your Friend in Jesus,
Alvin Barcelona


P.S. Last Sunday we re-launched our GO for 2000! campaign at the Feast PICC 3:45 session, aiming to reach 2,000 attendees by the end of this year. As we begin the “BER” months we proclaim that we are getting nearer our dream! We’re actually just a few hundreds away.

Thank you for bringing your family and friends to the Feast. Thank you for spreading the Good News about our Feast! Let’s fill up this place with
people who will be filled up by God’s Amazing Love!

P.S. Today is Mama Mary’s birthday. It would be good to specially to honor our beloved Blessed Mother.
God bles

Why?

Welcome to our new series!

If you have questions about your faith, you’ve made the right decision to attend today!
When I was young, I used to think it was wrong to question God.
I thought it was a form of doubt.

I thought faith meant you have to believe everything.
Later on I found out from my Theology professors that
it’s not only our right to question and challenge our faith, it’s our responsibility as Catholics.
Because it’s only when our faith is challenged that it becomes stronger.

If we don’t question our faith, someone else will.
And we may not be ready with the answers.
So we might as well ask the tough questions on our own so that we can share them with others. Makes sense?
That’s why we’re having this series.
Every week I’ll be sharing an insight in my message to kick start the discussion.

Today I’d like to talk about the birthday celebrant — Mama Mary.
A lot of people ask why we have images of her and why we worship her.

Well, the answer iswe don’t worship her. We honor her.
We honor her for being chosen by God to bear such a big responsibility in our salvation history. We honor her for the shame and inconvenience she underwent in carrying out this mission. We honor her for being a model of obedience and trust.
Do we overdo it sometimes? Yes. When we put our faith in her instead of God.
For example, we can tend to forget that God is the ultimate source of healing.
He may choose to channel this through power through someone, but we need to be aware of the source. It’s always and will always be Him.

We have statues and images of Mama Mary for the same reason we have pictures of our loved ones in our wallets.

We don’t worship them, do we?
We just want to be reminded of their presence in our life. We thank God for them each time we see their faces.

Same with our Blessed Mother.
Look forward to the answers to questions like these and more in the next four weeks. That’s more than enough reason for you not to complete the series!
Get ready to be enlightened and empowered!

In Him,
GEORGE GABRIEL